Written by AKSH GUPTA

 

If you’re a golfer in India, chances are you’ve been in this situation: surrounded by friends or colleagues who can talk endlessly about cricket scores, Formula 1 standings, or even the stock market — but the moment you mention golf, there’s silence. A few nod politely, some smile vaguely, and then someone inevitably asks, “So… what’s your handicap again?”

Being the only golfer in your circle is a peculiar experience. It’s not loneliness, it’s identity. You stand out.

 

 

A golfer on a wide, empty fairway at sunset.

 

The Constant Explaining

Try explaining the difference between a birdie and a bogey to friends who have never set foot on a course. Or why a handicap of 12 is something you’ve worked years to achieve, not a medical certificate. Most nod, few understand. And yet, you keep trying — because golf is not just a sport, it’s a language.

 

When Stereotypes Walk In

For many outside the fairways, golf is still wrapped in stereotypes. You must either be retired, loaded, or have nothing better to do on a Saturday morning. What they don’t see is the discipline of a 6:00 a.m. tee-time, the strategy behind every shot, and the fact that in India, it takes far more effort to play regularly than to just walk into a cricket net.

 

 

A young professional teeing off early morning.

 

The Corporate Parallel

And here’s where it stings: while cricket attracts nearly INR 10,000 Cr in sponsorship annually, golf across PGTI, WGAI, and leagues still struggles below INR 80 Cr. At one time, Indian golfers matched their Thai counterparts stride for stride. Today, Thai players enjoy stronger sponsorships, while Indian professionals are still fighting for corporate backing. It’s a reflection of where golf stands in our sporting hierarchy — and why those who play it often stand alone in their circles. WATCH THE FULL DEBATE NOW!

 

But There’s Pride in It

The irony? That very isolation sets you apart. While others chase mainstream conversations, you represent a game that is global, aspirational, and deeply strategic. You carry an identity that goes beyond sport — golf is a lifestyle, a network, a way of thinking.

 

And slowly, curiosity builds. A colleague asks for a round at your club. A friend wonders if he should learn. That’s when you realize — being the lone golfer isn’t a burden, it’s a privilege. You’re the ambassador of the sport in your world.

 

Final Word

So the next time you’re teased for skipping a late-night dinner because of an early tee-time, smile. You’re not just “the golfer” in your circle. You’re the one person living a sport that blends business, leisure, discipline, and identity into one.

 

Because in golf — much like in life — standing alone often means you’re standing ahead.

 

 

A group of golfers laughing or shaking hands on the green.

 

 But here’s the good news: you don’t have to stand alone. With our Gold Club Membership, you join a like-minded community of passionate golfers—HNIs, CEOs, and business leaders who share the same love for the game. It’s where networking meets fairways. Call +91 880088044090 to Apply or Know More. 

 

And if you want to sharpen your game even further, dive into our Learn Golf video tips—quick, insightful lessons to help you play smarter and talk golf with more confidence.